The Power of Pausing: How Self-Reflection Transforms Conflict

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In moments of conflict, we often rush to fix things, eager to determine who’s right and who’s wrong. We get caught up in a game of blame, and the focus becomes winning rather than resolving.

But what if, instead, we took a moment to pause?

Pausing allows us to step back, reflect, and honestly assess our own role in the situation. By acknowledging our part and taking responsibility, we shift the dynamic. Conflict and the discomfort of being rubbed the wrong way are actually great teaching moments—opportunities for growth that we often overlook. Don’t let them pass you by.

Once we handle our side of the equation, we’re better equipped to provide useful feedback and problem-solve from a place of clarity and calm. The next time you face conflict, choose to pause. You’ll be surprised by the clarity, understanding, and personal growth that follow.